Do you think this guy is rude for thinking I am not pretty?

12 answers · 2 months ago
I sent this guy a picture of myself on Instagram and asked him if he thinks I am pretty and he replied saying "no".

All he responded with was "No". He did not say anything else.

Do you think he is a rude person for thinking I am not pretty?

Answers

I think that he is being honest. The truth can hurt.
Anonymous · 2 months ago
No, I don't think he was being rude. You asked him a question and he gave you his answer.
Anonymous · 2 months ago
You post this every. single. day.
Anonymous · 2 months ago
My very intelligent father once told me "You should never ask a question you don't want to hear the answer to".

You asked him he gave you an answer. That isn't rude.

Nobody is put on this earth to feed your ego.
Anonymous · 2 months ago
I would be more concerned why you have such low self esteem that you need to seek validation. And no he wasn't rude, you asked and he answered.
Anonymous · 2 months ago
well pretty is a term and has differnt meanings to different people
you think your pretty , he honestly doesn't think so
not only that but using instagram means that he probably isn't the only one
Anonymous · 2 months ago
Maybe. He may perceive you as beautiful, enchnating, cute, ugly or sickening. But you only asked about "pretty".
Anonymous · 2 months ago
Not necessarily. Perhaps he just believes his answer is honest & to the point. And also ... perhaps you are taking it too personally.

We need to accept that not everyone will find us physically attractive. It doesn't matter if you are Homecoming Queen, or Miss America, or a famous supermodel, rock star, or movie star. It doesn't matter if you are tall or short, have long or short or no hair, or your ethnic background, fashion sense, or ... < fill in the blank with anything you want >. Some will always see you as "not their type". Absolutely no one is considered universally beautiful. Can you be OK with that?

So if you post a picture of yourself, and ask people to "evaluate" you, be prepared for a variety of answers. Some of them you may not like. Answers that are not complementary should be expected and accepted. It is not a reflection of you as much as it are a reflection of others.

So yes, be as beautiful as possible (inside and out) and be happy with knowing that.
Anonymous · 2 months ago
You asked! He was not being rude, thats just his opinion that you asked for.
Anonymous · 2 months ago
Maybe you are pretty ugly. Yes?
Anonymous · 2 months ago
No he is not rude for thinking you ugly. His only social obligation is to marry you. Now that he has accepted your picture he would be rude if he refused to marry you. This is the code of the hills. You tell him, girl!
Anonymous · 2 months ago
Everyone is entitled to their own opinon. You put yourself out there and he said his opinion. That doesnt make him rude. Im sure someone out there thinks you're pretty
Anonymous · 2 months ago